Some men really become intimidated and insecure if their partner tries to introduce any kind of sex toy into their sex life. Women are not comparing your girth or performance to a vibrator so put that thought to rest. Honestly men for most women wanting to use a vibrator when love making really have nothing to do with you at all.
Well the first and main reason is that a woman still wants you in bed. Women still desire touching and affection. Yes you can stroke her all day with a vibrator but it's exactly that, the vibrator is touching her not you. There is nothing that can ever replace the close contact of flesh on flesh. That is so arousing.
The second reason is that some men fear that their spouse will want their vibrator more than they would want them. This couldn't be further from the truth. It's all about the vibrations. That is what we are after. There is no replacing your hugs and kisses. That isn't even an option. You know that there is nothing more passionate than your spouse sexually charged from you rolling your tongue around her neck. That doesn't come in a box.
Most women enjoy a little romance and foreplay before sex. This is very stimulating and arousing. It's a part of the whole romantic style women enjoy especially when you surprise her and have some candles burning in the bedroom. The flickering and glowing is very sexy and alluring to women. Remember what I said it's about the thought of you wanting to show some romance. Any kind of sex toy can never replace that nor would it ever.
Although this third reason might be a bit of a stinger to you guys. Yes you know that we love all the hugs, kisses and foreplay that you're bringing but sometimes you men just don't wait it out until we've reached that eye popping peak that we really want to be reaching. I mean that using a vibrator while lovemaking only heightens the experience and gets us their quicker. It's a sure guaranteed orgasm. Not to say that you don't make us orgasm it's just that a vibrator feels good.
Wanting a vibrator has nothing to do with the size of your penis. So please feel real secure with that bit of information. If a woman or man wants an anal dildo or a gigantic dildo or vibrator, just bring it on. Your spouse just wants to get her freak on. Kick things up a bit. Think about it like this it gives your hand or tongue a bit of a break.
I believe that even the best of the best of couples should play with adult sex toys and products. Try a variety of sex toys. Heck, even give a sex swing a try. It's about the spice of life and your sex life is it folks. Don't hold back or fear the unknown. Remember she wants to experience that thrill with you.
Well the first and main reason is that a woman still wants you in bed. Women still desire touching and affection. Yes you can stroke her all day with a vibrator but it's exactly that, the vibrator is touching her not you. There is nothing that can ever replace the close contact of flesh on flesh. That is so arousing.
The second reason is that some men fear that their spouse will want their vibrator more than they would want them. This couldn't be further from the truth. It's all about the vibrations. That is what we are after. There is no replacing your hugs and kisses. That isn't even an option. You know that there is nothing more passionate than your spouse sexually charged from you rolling your tongue around her neck. That doesn't come in a box.
Most women enjoy a little romance and foreplay before sex. This is very stimulating and arousing. It's a part of the whole romantic style women enjoy especially when you surprise her and have some candles burning in the bedroom. The flickering and glowing is very sexy and alluring to women. Remember what I said it's about the thought of you wanting to show some romance. Any kind of sex toy can never replace that nor would it ever.
Although this third reason might be a bit of a stinger to you guys. Yes you know that we love all the hugs, kisses and foreplay that you're bringing but sometimes you men just don't wait it out until we've reached that eye popping peak that we really want to be reaching. I mean that using a vibrator while lovemaking only heightens the experience and gets us their quicker. It's a sure guaranteed orgasm. Not to say that you don't make us orgasm it's just that a vibrator feels good.
Wanting a vibrator has nothing to do with the size of your penis. So please feel real secure with that bit of information. If a woman or man wants an anal dildo or a gigantic dildo or vibrator, just bring it on. Your spouse just wants to get her freak on. Kick things up a bit. Think about it like this it gives your hand or tongue a bit of a break.
I believe that even the best of the best of couples should play with adult sex toys and products. Try a variety of sex toys. Heck, even give a sex swing a try. It's about the spice of life and your sex life is it folks. Don't hold back or fear the unknown. Remember she wants to experience that thrill with you.
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